Coping with Loss and Transformative Life: The Journey of Phyllis Connelly, Ph.D.

The loss of a family member often necessitates surviving members to take on new roles and responsibilities. This transition can be both challenging and transformative. One poignant example is the experience of Dr. Phyllis Connelly, who faced the unexpected passing of Kevin after close to 40 years of marriage. We also discuss the practical stresses that accompany such a significant transition. Managing finances, covering bills, and maintaining the household can exacerbate the emotional burden of grief. By sharing their grief and building new lives, her sociable collection of “Weeping Widows” provided an opportunity for members to support each other and adapt in ways that honor both individual and collective needs. Including refining family traditions, roles, and friendships.